why r husbands usually sweeter/nicer to their sis and mums in public but not wife

[Ashy2010]

Re: why r husbands usually sweeter/nicer to their sis and mums in public but not wife

@mirage

Alright. Lets see what the religion forum has to to tell us about it. Because Im seriously concerned now. Alhamdolillah I didnt refer to my husband so im not the one to be jealous here. I found it weird anyway as a third person. But the way you people are expressing your opinions I honestly need to tide this dirt away from my mind if I am given a convincing answer in the light of religion that if it is alright a 29/30 years old brother kisses his 22 years old sister’s cheek. Maybe I need to be corrected and not be embarrassed it happens anytime in front of me again

There are contradictory opinions when I researched the internet about the issue. Three examples are:

http://ashraf786.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=marriage&action=display&thread=6871

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46824

http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&Id=84311

I personally think personal contact is allowed between brother and sister if it remains within decency limits. A brother at the time of rukhsati of his sister can kiss her sister on cheek along with forehead because he can be emotional at that moment (even if he did not ever kissed her on cheeks before). The niyyat is what counts I think as suggested by ZK and the niyyat is always pure in majority of the cases.