Why Paki girls don't take matters into their own hand?

[PakWoman]

Re: Why Paki girls don’t take matters into their own hand?

@Sahar02

I do think that Omer brings up a good point. Sure there are plenty of GOOD reasons girls don’t stand up to their parents and take control of their lives/fate. But how long are we going to let those reasons control our lives? How long are we going to let “martyr” be our life goal? When we do this, we start relying on our children to bring us happiness because we couldn’t go find it ourselves. And that’s when all the generational tensions and MIL DIL issues start, because women feel they would rather live vicariously through others, rather than seek satisfaction in their own lives. Anyway, it’s not an easy change that needs to occur, but it will have to occur.

True. Not to forget, that when she does take matters in her own hands to find happiness for herself, she’s one of the selfish, wannabe successful women who don’t care about having a family.