what would you ladies do if your ln laws sent you your wedding dress and it was disgusting? not becuase it wasnt designer just because it was truly hideous?
alvena, the moment you find out where you are getting married, get to know your inlaws..be expressive in a gentle way, and let yourself be heard!
its a process...you know your inlaws (husband) will be responsible for one of your dresses..let them know your likes and dislikes..make it visual..you are not only developing a relationship with your MIL ...its totally healthy..and normal to talk to her about this topic...and its worth it!
this way you are less likely to get a wedding outfit that you dislike.