Re: Why oh why!
For those who had to go through such things at their own weddings due to demands and pressures of their parents and inlaws, hopefully things will change within our own generation, that we will not impose such silly things on our children! Its sad that we are just a nation totally consumed with impressing others and putting on a show. There is nothing wrong with having a big fancy wedding, as long as you can AFFORD it and not go into debt for it. And there is nothing wrong with having a small simple wedding and no one should ever be made to feel ashamed if thats what they chose to have. A wedding should be a beautiful celebration of love, happiness and the start of new family, instead we make it into the craziest drama with enough stress and tension to last a lifetime!!! I really do hope at least our generation will wake up and change things for the future. Alhamdulillah Im so happy I didnt have to deal with any of this greed and craziness when I got married, it really breaks my heart some of the stories I read here on gs!!!