Re: Why oh why!
Totally agree that the problem is more severe with Pakistanis living in Pakistan...that country is just well...I have no words to describe how messed it is.
Pakistanis here...the hardcore ones that want to follow cultural traditions also screw things up for others.
Heck I'm having 3 events, mehndi, shaddi, and valima...when I would be more than happy to have just 1 event...just 1 wedding.....had we done 1 event, we could have started our marriage with a condo of our own .....but because of all the money that is being spent on the three events....we'll have to wait a year or 2 before we get our own place. sigh