This is how we have weddings in our family and how i would love to have mine!
Same here, in my family we have very small mehndi with close famiy and friends only. Barat hosted y girls side and walima hosted by the guys side. Simple, small and elegant.
I agree with everything Chanda said, and I keep telling everyone, dont make too many clothes for me, I will get them as needed. Why is it so hard for people to understand this concept aghhh!