Re: Why oh why!
Very true naqsa!
so...i made my husband read this thread and he was ecstatic that desis are making an effort to reduce the manic and obsessive habits that I agree are very hard to let go......yes we are trying!
We discussed abuse by the inlaws, the brides or the grooms...in the name of weddings..or for whatever reason.
It is not about what you do with your money, but how you abuse it to promote cultural (voluntary or involuntary) stupidity!
I totally agree with this girl!! I wouldnt call such people educated but the nouveau riche, aka "bhookay" prove to be the most hypocritical...
They tend to follow the same jahil traditions, with added glitter and pomp....making it an issue of "we can afford this, thus its ok" and arguing that they do it because they have the money to support such idiotic practices!