Re: Why oh why!
also, the question certainly is not.... "why not let future brides have what we had...for the wedding day..'
the question is how can we let them know we DIDNT conform to pressures!! and give in to some stupid aunties at parties, or the demands of our inlaws, or expectations of everyone around us! it is way too easy to get carried away when all eyes are on you.....but your inlaws are carrying around the same mentality..and demanding because of pressures and expectations in their social circle....
to break away from one circle means, breaking away from it altogether for the rest of your life!!! like i said earlier, one no is better than giving in a hundred times!!