Re: Why oh why!
I dont think the issue here is the wedding day....people please dont read over the issues and points that is being discussed and looked over.
Readers: We are not discussing the wedding party! the venue or the decor! we are discussing demands,expenditures,jahez, bari, gift giving rasams, gloating grooms, and brides gone wild....etc etc! no one is talking about having their wedding at the masjid...(although its wonderful!! MA) the discussion did however talk about multiday weddings that seem to be a bore after day3..same people..same same same...it gets redundant...