Re: Why oh why!
thats true sumo.....in my experience.....what I have found doing my wedding business in the UK is that couples who are paying for the weddings themselves have a totally different budget in mind for the wedding than those who parents are paying for it. for e.g they want a nicer honeymoon, not bothered about having a gold set, etc etc. when i have visited famlies whose parents are paying....when it comes to discussing prices for wedding cakes/favours/djs etc etc they are in shock at the prices - where as a couple doing it themselves are more realistic of the costs involved. However, every family and bride/groom are different!