I'd like to share just one more thought.
If you can afford to buy a $25,000 bridal dress and splurge $50,000 in jewelery, SPLENDID MASHALLAH. No body has any right to direct you on how to spend your hard-earned money. But, why do you think people, who disagree with this kind of expenditure, are trying to point finger at you. They are only stating their viewpoint that just happens to be opposite of your opinion.
However, regardless of the fact that I can afford to go that way, I would not do it and Chanda is trying to say the same, I think. I do not know about anyone else here on GS but I do know that there are quite a few people in my family in Pakistan, maids, servants, etc. who can put this kind of money into a way better use. Not every family in my relatives is multi-millionaire and there is a big possibility for girls of those families to experience inferiority complex and I don't blame them for that. It's just human nature.