I really want to thank all the readers for participating in this discussion.
I always try to tell this to myself...the day I get impressed with money, will be the day I contradict everything I stand for.
from the looks of desis who are not willing to conform...it seems we "bleed" money..not spend it.. I wish our country gets the will to fight, but how is it possible when NO ONE is willing to change! Neither the men nor the women! its either the worry of the inlaws dropping rishtas...or "what will people say"!! i say..let them...if more people reject such shallow ideologies, the word will spread, and the mentality will get a chance to shift its course.
:) a 2nd here here from me!