Re: Why oh why!
I would like to share the words of my mentor, my mother, that have stuck by me.
"It is better to be known and perceived as educated than rich, even if you have a bank account that puts bill gate's account to shame."
People, Inlaws, brides and grooms, who spend ridiculously and make outrageous demands or use weddings as an excuse for all of the above....are seen as tacky, I dont care if they are doctors, lawyers, or business men, that has nothing to do with how they behave when they see an opportunity to spend...because what you see then....THATS the real them. :)