Why Most Of The Guys .......

[kakaballi]

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@Sara516

That’s JUST like saying those who have love marriages are sluts or something.

not sluts… mostly stupid

[Sara516]

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Yes true...in an arranged marriage if ure life goes south, you can always blame the parents. :)

[Iconoclast]

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prefer arrange marriages ???

may be coz they know that their parents will find the most shareef girl for them or may be some other reason..........

what do u guys think ???

If done rightly, arrranged marriages gives one a much better oppurtunity to find a suitable spouse. One cannot meet enough singles of the right age and requirement on his own. Its good to keep in contact with match makers, if there is a suitable match, explore about it, meet the family and the person, try to get to know each other more, have a period of engagemnt before marriage.

[fat_spartan]

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@EDAL

Well think about it this way, a girl who goes out with you, sleeps with you, etc…is that really someone you want as a mother of your children, grandma to your future grandchildren?? Hell NO!!! I dunno any Muslim guy that would (whether Paki, Arab, Afghan etc..).

Those aren’t wives or mothers, their I dunno, I like to think of them as “life experience enhancers”.

Even a girl who talks freely or openly and mixes/mingles with boys, even a girl like that YOU DON"T WANT!! (As a wife that is).

The nice shareef girls, the ones you want as a future wife/mother to your kids, their not going to date you, only way to marry them is to go through their father. Now that is respect, that is honor. I respect those type of girls so much.

Guys do think like this. Even the ones who use the said women to “enhnace their life experiences.” I’ve even heard this type of talk from non-Desi non-Muslim guys.

@Lafanter

here are some basic lessons

arranged marriage != marry who ever parents tell you to
arranged marriage ≅ parents helping out to find a suitable partner, ∧ you have the choice to accept or reject

Quoted for truth.

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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So that they have support of their in-laws.