Re: Why Most Of The Guys …
Well think about it this way, a girl who goes out with you, sleeps with you, etc…is that really someone you want as a mother of your children, grandma to your future grandchildren?? Hell NO!!! I dunno any Muslim guy that would (whether Paki, Arab, Afghan etc..).
Those aren’t wives or mothers, their I dunno, I like to think of them as “life experience enhancers”.
Even a girl who talks freely or openly and mixes/mingles with boys, even a girl like that YOU DON"T WANT!! (As a wife that is).
The nice shareef girls, the ones you want as a future wife/mother to your kids, their not going to date you, only way to marry them is to go through their father. Now that is respect, that is honor. I respect those type of girls so much.
Guys do think like this. Even the ones who use the said women to “enhnace their life experiences.” I’ve even heard this type of talk from non-Desi non-Muslim guys.
here are some basic lessons
arranged marriage != marry who ever parents tell you to
Quoted for truth.