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Re: Why Most Of The Guys …

@redvelvet

Look, this isn’t even about your non-virgin and previously divorced ex and how you were so benevolent enough to marry her despite her being “impure” and that she ended up using you. This is more about your views and your inability to understand why many people in this forum (both male and female) have issues with them. You can shrug it off and have the “Screw it, I’m confident in my views” attitude, but that doesn’t make you right or less of a fool.

You claim you’ve changed in the past two years, yeah I don’t think so. You say you’ve become humble, eh? What a joke! If your “humble” self had truly learned something, you’d also admonish the guys who willingly hang out with girls with no intention to marry them and only to use them for their own pleasure. I believe it takes two to tango. Yes, it is the girls’ fault, but the guys are guilty as well. And that’s what you’re doing wrong. Your post exempts the the guys from any responsibility. Hence, you, oh humble one, have learned nothing. And the sad thing is that one can’t even make the excuse that perhaps you struggle with language and are unintentionally wording things in a way that come across as offensive. Nope, you seem to know exactly what you’re typing. And that’s sad, really and truly sad.

I can’t change how they are. They are what they are.

What I do is I don’t hang around those guys anymore, that’s all I can do. I’ve changed the friends I keep and moved on with my life.

I mean as people we are influenced by our peers, and the kind of friends I had growing up, they didn’t really respect women or girls much, used em for pleasure, and that’s how I was too. I mean the whole “snoop dog, Akon, rap culture etc..it really doesn’t respect women does it” That’s the kind of bs I was surrounded by.

It happens a lot in suburban America, you just gotta be careful, both guys and girls!