This kind of reminded me, I met an Arab girl yesterday and she was telling me how our culture is so much more relaxed and liberal and ohw Muslim women have more rights, than in her culture. I couldn’t stop laughing.
My point is, like yours and a few others’ posts here, that the generalization behind people who go for arranged marriage is really unfair.
Just like ppl have stupid assumptions about girls who go for love marriage (like the genius who says, a girl who talks freely/openly with guys isn’t fit to be the mother of your children), stereotypes about guys who go for arranged marriages are silly as well.
By all means, do whatever makes you and your family happy, arranged or love, but why the need to put the “other” down?
PS, and no my marriage wasn’t arranged.
