Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Lifestyle Relationships
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What drives them to stay together despite their women not turn out to be who they wish for…

…and is it becuase these men are sincere to work out the relationship or they have no other choice?

(Copied from other thread)

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

I'd say in majority of cases because they are sincere in attempts to work it out...especially when there are children involved.

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Because the cheap booty calls are worth it?

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sorry dont know

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Sure you do

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Well there was one sahabi who was know to have a wife who was a pain. Someone once asked him why he stays with her, why he puts up with her. He said that if he was to divorce her, then somebody else would eventually end up getting stuck with her.

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bro kindly quote reference when posting such religious incidents/events.

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I remember reading it a long time ago. I can't remember the reference exactly. Realistically speaking, by the time I would find it, I doubt you'd still care. So you may disregard it if you really require a reference.

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Normally men DON'T stay with bad women, because most men don't have the patience too. SO the men who do end up staying, really do have a good heart and want to work it out.

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So a man who works through his relationship and doesn't throw the woman out at the first sign of trouble, is just doing it for a cheap booty call?

Wow. I guess its damned if they do, damned if they don't?

great logic of yours.

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Because i like psycho girls!

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

First of all I don't know your definition of a "bad woman"

Many man choose to remain in a unstable and unhappy marriage for the sake of children. Many a times just for the sake of not doing anything wrong to a woman , it's in their upbringing to respect a woman , respect a marriage & value relationships.

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

Because they are idiots and have nobody to blame but themselves. People who stay in abusive relationships or bad ones have nobody to blame but themselves.

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bro i asked for reference cause u are talking about sahaba razi ALLAH anho and i would like to see the exact words cause the words u are using like "was a pain"sound too derogatory.

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Ah, ok. If you are asking about that particular part, then of course the narration did not have those words in it. That's only my personal summary. I can't even remember who the sahabi was. I had read it a long time ago, so it would take me a while to track down the exact source. If I do come across it again, I'll let you know (if I still remember this discussion by then).

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Mirror threads. Honestly its fun up to certain limit only. Both aspects of single idea can always be discussed in one thread.

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Martyr for a social cause.

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because they love their wife and hope some day she will get some sense in her?
or may be because they ignore her negative aspects and focus on the positive things

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A general went to visit the front-line on the border and rockets started falling right and left of the bunker. So Gen and his companions took shelter in the bunker. Once it all stopped, Gen asked the soldier (posted on that bunker)

Gen: Since how long this is happening

Soldier: Everyday ....2 ..3 times enemy guy fires the rocket and bombs

Gen (now angry): Why dont we reply?

Soldier: Well sir, if we reply and enemy guy got killed, they might send someone with better aiming capabilities

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Re: Why Men Stay With Bad Women?

^ hahahaaa.......I actually like that......