Dear brother Thornewood, I am sorry if I have come across as a rude person but we must accept our limits ie we human beings including both you and I have limits in our understanding of things as well as explaining them to others. Sometimes it is better to not to waste our time on arguing over things which deliverer of explanation or receiver of explanation finds difficult to deliver or to understand. If anyone cannot understand what I have explained in detail from my point of view then for the time being that is the best I could do so no point in trying to say it is your fault or mine. It is because either you have not reached the level of understanding needed for my explanation or that I have not reached the level of ability to deliver an explanation to your satisfaction. So there is no point in trying to hide behind excuses or in trying to blame each other. May be next time if I am still around I will improve my delivery or that by that time you will have developed a better ability to understand things which could compensate for my lacks in explaining things. Meanwhile we should move on and keep reflecting and if anything better comes to my mind I can come back on the same thing or may be you can come back and explain things better.
Mean while I wish, God blesses you with all the best.