Why get attached? death will do us all part. Do you guys consider that whenever you get close to someone you risk hurting them and hurting yourself? Are you afraid of falling in love or getting very attached to relatives/family members because one day they will leave you and then it will hurt like crazy? Isnt it better to detach yourself from them so in case you die they wont cry over you forever or if they leave it wont hurt as much?
^^Do you think the above is enough to justify a person wanting to detach themselves completely from their family and never get married/fall in love? is it enough to justify a less extreme situation, where a person might still be willing to fall in love but not surrender their emotions completely?
^I agree.... one of my friends once said"if you are afraid of getting hurt, you are not living then" and i think its true. getting hurt is part of life... but here's how it works, or it should work...
you get hurt...
you learn from your mistakes....
you get up, brush off bad memories from your clothes....
and move on.......
once you've done it you'll be a strong, confident person again :) whoever this person is, all they need is time...they'll be ok...
it was shakespeare who said "'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." This speaks volumes....
yes, its so tragic to lose a loved one. but we get but one life, at least one life that we are aware of, yeah? Live it to the fullest, love as much as you can. To ignore love just to avoid the hurt, well, THAT hurt will hurt less...but its such a LESSER life if you know what I mean....
^ shweets its really hard to stay away from life, you can't do it no matter how hard you try.... it pulls you back in... life doesn't stop for anybody or anything.... give the person time....
^ Yes, these media folks want to control our thought process by polluting our minds with love shlove. Love does not do dishes, neither does it cook, and most importantly for women...it certainly does not buy diamond rings...only fools do. :)
" The things we touch have no permanence. My master would say: there is nothing we can hold onto in this world. Only by letting go can we truly possess what is real. "
ok so this may not fully say what i wanted to say.. but.. death is absolute....it WILL occur.. and living your life without the love-portion, it will hurt MORE dying in your bed, with no1 crying around u ...
its better to be loved and die satisfactorily that someone in life loved u and cared about u instead dying alone on ur bed with no one to hold your hand during ur last breath!