I look good for myself, people. And only myself. Not a man
about the wandering eye thing...hot girls get cheated on all the time. And it's usually with butt ugly girls. So if you marry a man like that it doesn't really matter how gorgeous you are, but the problem isn't with you, it's with him
I look good for myself, people. And only myself. Not a man
about the wandering eye thing...hot girls get cheated on all the time. And it's usually with butt ugly girls. So if you marry a man like that it doesn't really matter how gorgeous you are, but the problem isn't with you, it's with him
Agree.
Also agree with whoever said people are obsessed with looks here.
Its nice to look good for each other.... there shouldn't be any pressure though.
Come on people, isn't it obvious? It's because women just don't give as much importance to looks as men do. Usually, women look for financial stability, sensitivity, kindness in a man. If a man looks good and has none of these qualities, she won't want to be with him for the long haul. So many men will be influenced by a pretty woman that they will overlook any bad personality traits. It's the way we're programmed, whether by nature or nurture.
And also, it's not men pressuring women to look good as much as it is other women who will pass judgement on someone who is fat, ungroomed, etc. I've known a few that enjoy when others' husbands give them a second look- makes them feel important? i dunno. Men's eyes don't just wander to anyone, they wander to women who want to attract male attention. And frankly I do not think any husbands are even aware when their wives' eyes "wander" because they don't care- they know it doesn't mean anything will happen. But because women place so much value on their own looks, when their man's eyes wander, it is incredibly insulting to them.
I dunno if i've gone off topic lol
^ no bongiz plz
Humesha badsoorat (fugly) admi ko pyari biwi milti hai, isi aas par jee rahey hain hum 
Come on people, isn't it obvious? It's because women just don't give as much importance to looks as men do. Usually, women look for financial stability, sensitivity, kindness in a man. If a man looks good and has none of these qualities, she won't want to be with him for the long haul. So many men will be influenced by a pretty woman that they will overlook any bad personality traits. It's the way we're programmed, whether by nature or nurture.
And also, it's not men pressuring women to look good as much as it is other women who will pass judgement on someone who is fat, ungroomed, etc. I've known a few that enjoy when others' husbands give them a second look- makes them feel important? i dunno. Men's eyes don't just wander to anyone, they wander to women who want to attract male attention. And frankly I do not think any husbands are even aware when their wives' eyes "wander" because they don't care- they know it doesn't mean anything will happen. But because women place so much value on their own looks, when their man's eyes wander, it is incredibly insulting to them.
I dunno if i've gone off topic lol
hahaha i thought you said women enjoy it when other women tarofy their husbands.
Spock, do u look like spock? He's so kkkyyyuuuuutttteee
khumar begum, ur avatar has me confused
hahahahhaha chooop
Spock, do u look like spock? He's so kkkyyyuuuuutttteee
khumar begum, ur avatar has me confused
but why, i'm a lady :(
Re: Why just the women?
There have been many scientific studies on the differences between men and women in matters of love. Its been proven that men are visual creatures. The see something pretty, their hormones kick in. Women respond to more esoteric things...romantic gestures, pronouncements of love, etc. We women are much less inclined to look at the physical if all the other "trimmings" are so nice.
Indeed, just a wee bit less than me
Re: Why just the women?
Women need love and we men provide this ‘‘more to love’’ . They just don’t appreciate us for nothing 
And How do you explain this comment by TLK; Nikki?
Originally Posted by TLK http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost.gif
I want to go to Paris, this summer. Should I bring my wife with me?
QED …
…is it me or is Jimmy referring to our desi men as lions? And ganday lions on top of that…
AMEN sista!
Oprah did a segment on how men dont really cheat with gorgeous women…
…I see a new thread…lol
Where did he write that :ASA:
Most women keep groomed for themselves, why can't men do the same?
That is so true, just look at the various women Cheryl Cole was cheated on for.
Basically, if a guy is going to cheat he’ll do it regardless of whether you look your best or not. If the intention is there in his heart it doesn’t matter how you look. That’s why a relationship needs to go beyond physical attraction, it won’t last if that’s all the relationship has going for it.
That being said if I look after myself I’d expect him to do so as well 
No beer guts for me thanks.
half of the world knows this 
I look good for myself, people. And only myself. Not a man
about the wandering eye thing...hot girls get cheated on all the time. And it's usually with butt ugly girls. So if you marry a man like that it doesn't really matter how gorgeous you are, but the problem isn't with you, it's with him
Great post. :)
Come on people, isn't it obvious? It's because women just don't give as much importance to looks as men do. Usually, women look for financial stability, sensitivity, kindness in a man. If a man looks good and has none of these qualities, she won't want to be with him for the long haul. So many men will be influenced by a pretty woman that they will overlook any bad personality traits. It's the way we're programmed, whether by nature or nurture.
And also, it's not men pressuring women to look good as much as it is other women who will pass judgement on someone who is fat, ungroomed, etc. I've known a few that enjoy when others' husbands give them a second look- makes them feel important? i dunno. Men's eyes don't just wander to anyone, they wander to women who want to attract male attention. And frankly I do not think any husbands are even aware when their wives' eyes "wander" because they don't care- they know it doesn't mean anything will happen. *But because women place so much value on their own looks, when their man's eyes wander, it is incredibly insulting to them. *
I dunno if i've gone off topic lol
Another great post...
But perhaps the bold part needs to be explained.
I think you meant to say that men's eyes will still wander and women who place importance to their looks will still be insulted since men's eyes will not stop wandering.... Right?
Good, you stopped there.
Glad you did not add the man who has crew cut hair still with hairspray or gel, shaved chest, pierced ear and tight shirt and trousers with crisp crease and shiny shoes who speaks very eloquently in feminine accent! 