Re: why joint,why seprate???
Do you see idiocy of your claims, you are only qouting non desi imams and saying there is there is absolutely no difference of opinion, when you yourself have admitted that desi scholars aren’t against joint family system? There’s got be some sort of difference of opinion behind two different verdits. And I’m going to be honest say I’ve never ever heard of that particular hadith, I think I’d choose consult an Imam (belonging to the school of thought I follow and trust) than search internet forums. My BIL lived with us, Imam of our local Mosque and its community knew about him, I don’t think he declared any fatwa on his head. I’ve come across some super strickt practicing religious joint families where the women are living with BIL’s, so I’m begining to doubt how credible that particular hadith is.
I don’t have to look online to please you, you think I care? Its you who seemed to got its knickers in twist in the the process. Good for you.
Anyway if being caught naked in the middle of night is the thing that scars you from living with inlaws then what can I say? Are you saying all those people who end up in joint family system have cases of BIL catching his SIL naked? LOL Yeah I can make all sorts petty little idiotic reasons to say how wonderful it could be to live with your inlaws. You know there’s something called being resposible, screw BIL I wouldn’t dream of coming out naked from my own room even if my sisters are around.