why joint,why seprate???

[Jolie]

Re: why joint,why seprate???

@Deeba1234

I meant in terms of what they say about the joint family. Like it or not it’s the truth but ppl who are blindly following culture will never see it.. Better to admit faults and mistakes then keep on pretending it must be right because we’re the ones who are doing it or because that’s what our parents, grandparents, great grandparents did. If u really believe us desis who practise our joint family system are right and practically all of the rest of the Muslim world is wrong I feel sorry for u.

Why non desi scholars should be blindly followed when it comes to joint family but not when they denounce many other our cultural practices (i.e the male-female mingling at South Asian weddings). I’m no a hypocrite.

And don’t put words in my mouth, I’m not a blind fool suffering from inferior complex, besides religion practicaly every Muslim country has its own set of cultural norms and practices (and?) just because I don’t follow them doesn’t mean I have to come conclusion to pronouce them right or wrong. I simply don’t care. So please don’t make me laugh by saying you feel sorry for me not ass kissing the non desi culture, I have nothing to with them. I’m more concerned about findind a balance living in the country or communities I’m living, be it the West or Pakistan and ofcourse following the Quran and Hadiths.