Re: why joint,why seprate???
But coming out and pretending Islam somehow clearly *forbids *living with inlaws is pathetically amusing.
I’ve heard scholars saying if by separating from your parents you are causing them emotional pain and mental distress, then the spirit of Islam would suggest you to compromise on something for your parents’ betterment. Keeping your parents happy is also serious deal in Islam thats why most scholars tell you to use your own common sense to come up with a middle ground. As much as we like to pretend, there are indeed no crystal clear ruling on joint or separate living but there are signifcant rulings on rights and treatment of your parents and your partner. To upset one party to make another happy would really go against the spirit and teachings of Islam.