I was just answering ur incorrect statements that implied that there was no preference** Islamically **speakingbetween living separate or living with inlaws.. Whether or not ppl want to or not is down to them..
I do agree that it’s better to find a guy who makes it clear from the start that he’s willing to move out rather than pushing him against his will and creating all that resentment but then again in arranged marriage situations the girl doesn’t often get much choice or input before marriage when it comes to living arrangements, even tho it falls under her basic rights..