why joint,why seprate???

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Re: why joint,why seprate???

@Jolie

This Islamically not good to force someone talks can go both ways, i.e it could be also applied to those women who ‘force’ their men out of joint system.

Not really if there are BILs or other non-mehrams living there (which obviously there are often are)..

There isn’t a single non-desi scholar who promotes living with inlaws whilst living separate is actively encouraged by practically ALL of them (unless MIL or FIL are sick and/or lonely and even then there are conditions regarding the amount of space and privacy she is entitled to)..