Exactly, you should also think about this agreement between couple idea when hurting your brain with thinking Pakistani women are ‘forced’ to live with their inlaws. Thats why I told you to follow your own famous logic in that regard.
And any girl who doesn’t want to go along with the cultural norm can happily stay away from a man who wants to follow cultural practices, life will only be easier if women start being honest to themselves and the person they are about to bring in a lifelong committment. This Islamically not good to force someone talks can go both ways, i.e it could be also applied to those women who ‘force’ their men out of joint system.