Re: why joint,why seprate???
i never said joint is against islam or logic…but when one side(its wife or hubby) doesnt wish to live in joint even joint is norm in culture so u shouldnt point out she is not good or after money or misrespecting or not caring…just she doesnt wish to go forward with a norm that its not on basic of islam to do it…even not against islam but its not islamically allowed to force somone …thats all
for my own i can see logic regard wat me & hubby feel its best & wats logic means ? its means when we have an issue we talk abt all negetive & positive point & think abt our feelings & in end we can decide wats logic says out of cultures…
for joli
i still dont know wats issue that u wish to fight instead talk…its not abt i wish or hubby wish…its abt we talked & made agreement due to our personal…its not abt he is coming blindly after me or ill go blind…i trust him thats else & if there is a qs in my mind regard any of his requests ill ask & he will clear me then we will decide to do or not …thats all abt sharing life
if u like joint system u like it or i dont like…i dont like…
i opened this thread that couples who r not in same level of thinking abt join or seprate think abt it from other views than norms or culture or ppl words…