Re: why joint,why seprate???
its that much hard & big expection that a wife ask for a seprat private & being indepent?
realy im not understanding why most of men& also some women raise joint system this much & relate it to care & respect!
care & repect will have meaning if only the guy who is asking his wife to come & live with his parents(in case they r healthy & wealthy mashhal) then if his wife ask him same he would feel same to go & live with respect & love to his in-laws!
more than all i feel most ppl who r after joint system is better to say we want our wife adopt with us! not saying leaving parents is bla bla! cuz girl is also leaving her parents! rather may even she wont have any brother but yet i dont think so any groom will live in laws wether they have son or not maybe for caring in their needy time …
but not in their healthy & wealthy time even though if they dont have son & they guy may have other brothers also!
if im wrong plz correct me