Hai hai UZ, kya baat keri tumney kaalia!
Acha, here's the deal. People make fun of an old man married to a young girl because our wicked society assumes that older men should stop being needy of sexual desires so by marrying a young wife they are being too macho for their own good. Our society has problems up until they themselves are in that situation. People have too much faltoo time to talk.
Similarly, people often make fun of girls who are in hijab because we desi people just like to make fun of other people. It's a bad bad habit. And we are creatures of habit.
End of discussion.
I think you meet different kind a desi people, apart of religious difference their is thing called "humanity". Any way my experience in west is beautiful i never had any discrimination problem except one time in college days. About desi's i only take their mentality like.. larkiyaan kehtin hain "jhoote ki nouk per" ....