I do not understand why you are deliberately pushing hindu customs in the debate…
bindi is a very small issue…what about sati system..totally banished by law..
and dowry system…a bad hindu tradition for ages…today this custom is prosecuted by law for proposing dowry or demanding dowry…
as per your concept for muslim women…shall we let a hindu lady die as sati if shw wants to do it volantrily…
or let dowry system continue if the bride herself wants it…
as per your notions… one should not be compelled to study if he does not want it…or if his traditions or religion oppose it…
the debate should be for or against the freedom of women…but you and your like-minded people easily convert such debates into…islam vs europe…