Re: WHY is it that if a Punjabi boy marries a Pathan Girl...
Almost 9 months since the thread started... should we expect any results soon? ;)
well what a stupid ignorance this is which is present in our society against Islamic teachings. everyone is equal in Islam the difference is only in taqva and those who think and say not to marry their daughters and sons out of caste or race in muslims is just rubbish and hinduana style and is a double policy.
that is why we say that we all just say that we are muslims and we also say that we are following Islam, but when it comes the nikah matter then we all either pashtuns, punjabis or else mostly follow the UnIslamic indian style of marriage only in castes or races as if other muslims are cheap or of lower level.
that is such a stupidity and the ppl of this mind deserve a slap on their faces. our Prophet Hazrat Muhammad(SAW) had also married out of family and out of tribe and caste with Hazrat Khadija(RA) but we dont see that, we just keep weeping and following every UnIslamic rule of society which must be broken at any cost.
Actually we have a complex of superiority which must be eliminated and must only see sharafat and haya in this matter. not UnIslamic racism and caste system as if others are of cheap caste or tribe.
and this will happen if such ignorance prevails.
:(
I appreciate your post, dude :-) Seems like the most logical post on this thread!
Then his parents will be happy for their son to marry a Pathan girl... BUT, if a Punjabi girl wants to marry a Pathan boy, her parents don't want that to happen.
And if a Pathan boy wants to marry a Punjabi girl, his parents will allow this, but if a Pathan girl wants to marry a Punjabi boy, her parents will NOT allow this?
So the boy can marry a girl out of his ethnicity, but a girl cannot do so.
I am generalising, but i want to know why this is? Who has the answers?
yaar this is totally true!
i guess it is same thinking that a muslim guy can marry jew, christian or muslim wife...but muslim woman can marry only muslim man!
Re: WHY is it that if a Punjabi boy marries a Pathan Girl...
im punjabi, my guy is half pathan, noone even raised this topic with us.
Oh man I love this topic, though it has been beathen to death but it is always fun to see how people react when it is raised 
no, its not the case either… 80% parents will not allow him in most cases, unless he goes without their consent
reason? …, well.. simple… “How our DIL can be a pathan?”
thx.. its not me 
which planet r u from btw? 
pathan men are aggressive , handsome and good natured but r in superiority complex a bit ( they have right to b proud). They r beautiful and like beautiful girls thats why do not marry punjabi girls... But pashtun girls do marry punjabi men.... the reason is that after 1947 pashtuns have got a disease to sell their girls to punjabies....the same pathans who 300 years ago draw support from syed ahmad shaheed because he demand pathan wives for his indian mujahids. also modern and educated girls prefer punjabi boys ( there is a reason 4 it). in most cases when affrair of pastun girl and boy is revealed, no one marry the girl, so parents marry her in punjab
I am a Punjabi, but your comment is so ridiculous. You Afghani Pyscho path want confrontations between Punjabis and Pathans in order to break Pakistan. Don't dare insult our Pakhtun brothers. We are all united and will remain Insha Allah. Pathan men are very hospitable to their guests. They deserve the Best Hospitality Award. And Pathan girls are religous, beautiful, intelligent and loyal. They respect their husbands and give them devotional and un conditional love.
I love pathan people. I have many pathan friends. They only have one bad quality and i.e. they are stubborn. Otherwise they are good people generally.
I myself am a pathan girl. No offence but I'd never marry a punjabi man because I'm betting I'd be even tougher than him. Our men are supposed to be our protectors, our rocks. And a punjabi man for me just wouldnt fit that picture.
Besides, I'm already engaged to a wonderful hansome pathan anyway. :)
Being proud of your culture is Ok. But saying others weak is just bull crap.Punjabis are also tough. Most of the Pakistan Army comprises of Punjabis. These are the Punjabi farmers who sow and grow wheat which the rest of the country eats. Pathan people are great people, so are the fellows of other provinces. So don't become prejudice. If you have got education then think on the terms of whole nation not your ethnicity. I have many pathan friends who are good people but are stubborn. And stubborness is not a good quality. So every one has good and bad qualities. A woman should herself be of strong character to protect herself from sins and outer influences. As far as physical protection is concerned. Punjabi men are very capable of and provide protection to their women. I assume that you haven't seen a Jatt ever. IF you had had, you wouldn't say it.
I am a Punjabi, but your comment is so ridiculous. You Afghani Pyscho path want confrontations between Punjabis and Pathans in order to break Pakistan. Don't dare insult our Pakhtun brothers. We are all united and will remain Insha Allah. Pathan men are very hospitable to their guests. They deserve the Best Hospitality Award. And Pathan girls are religous, beautiful, intelligent and loyal. They respect their husbands and give them devotional and un conditional love.
I love pathan people. I have many pathan friends. They only have one bad quality and i.e. they are stubborn. Otherwise they are good people generally.
Lets beat the prince. You beat him for saying things against Pukhtoons and I will beat him for saying things against Punjabis. :ASA:
Then his parents will be happy for their son to marry a Pathan girl... BUT, if a Punjabi girl wants to marry a Pathan boy, her parents don't want that to happen.
And if a Pathan boy wants to marry a Punjabi girl, his parents will allow this, but if a Pathan girl wants to marry a Punjabi boy, her parents will NOT allow this?
So the boy can marry a girl out of his ethnicity, but a girl cannot do so.
I am generalising, but i want to know why this is? Who has the answers?
Maybe boys have more freedom to choose?
Then his parents will be happy for their son to marry a Pathan girl... BUT, if a Punjabi girl wants to marry a Pathan boy, her parents don't want that to happen.
And if a Pathan boy wants to marry a Punjabi girl, his parents will allow this, but if a Pathan girl wants to marry a Punjabi boy, her parents will NOT allow this?
So the boy can marry a girl out of his ethnicity, but a girl cannot do so.
I am generalising, but i want to know why this is? Who has the answers?
Laws of races are directly proportional to the cultural values and inversely proportional to the weight of the wallet.......................:)
Some of them could be bend & in other case some of them could be over ridden............
No big deal.................
The big change is here and its hapenning everywhere.....................:)
Re: WHY is it that if a Punjabi boy marries a Pathan Girl...
in practical life if you see the most important thing is culture a lots of ppl dont want to leave their culture no doubt pathan and pujabi have big difference of life style i dont think i need to explain all but thats the fact and other main thing is zaat paat. go and check our parents mentality and you will find only one major answer oh he is lohaar kumhaar jatt araeen pathan bla bla bla. and if you talk about beauty. its one and only Allah (ST) who made us so dont point to some one who is not beautiful or dont be proud being beautiful.