Ok I have seen many cases the other way around where a guy "dates" a girl with the intention of marriage and when the time comes she backs out by saying on of the following:
- You are too good for me
- My parents will never agree and because my dad is a heart patient I cannot afford to give him any grief
- I am dying, I have a fatal disease such as cancer of the toenail, and so by marrying me you will become a widower in a few months
Trust me, I have seen and met all 3 above, yes.
add one more - which is :)
**You know , when i first met you - I was already engaged ( Although I never like him a single bit ) - and hey I know its my fault but we shouldn't have come that far.
And I can't cause pain to my family therefore I can't marry you :)**
and it ends with a cheesy line ' **you know you are a gem of a person , you will get some one much better than me - who gona make you happy . I m too bad
Please forgive if ya can - i know its hard , but please do so ** '