Okay, I was lying here and just skimming through and your Cancer of the Toenail actually made me laugh out loud…![]()
Its not hard for all guys to commit, only the jacks's.**
So the question isn't, why do these men not commit, rather, why can't women tell the difference between these men.
.. sums it up pretty well. :)
any decent guy with the right intentions would have no problem in committing.. zahir si baat hay agar shaadi karna chaahta hay with someone right for him then why would he throw that away? it's the type who just want to 'play around' and chase who shy away from committing.
Re: Why is it hard for guys to commit?
For lot of guys quantity is more important than quality.
Ok I have seen many cases the other way around where a guy "dates" a girl with the intention of marriage and when the time comes she backs out by saying on of the following:
- You are too good for me
- My parents will never agree and because my dad is a heart patient I cannot afford to give him any grief
- I am dying, I have a fatal disease such as cancer of the toenail, and so by marrying me you will become a widower in a few months
Trust me, I have seen and met all 3 above, yes.
add one more - which is :)
**You know , when i first met you - I was already engaged ( Although I never like him a single bit ) - and hey I know its my fault but we shouldn't have come that far.
And I can't cause pain to my family therefore I can't marry you :)**
and it ends with a cheesy line ' **you know you are a gem of a person , you will get some one much better than me - who gona make you happy . I m too bad
Please forgive if ya can - i know its hard , but please do so ** '
For lot of guys quantity is more important than quality.
.. and that's the type girls should avoid. :)
.. and that's the type girls should avoid. :)
Thats the type girls usually are attracted to.
sad but true.. that’s why it’s important for girls to know that they need to steer clear, even if they feel otherwise.
waisay one wonders why girls are attracted to that type of guy in the first place despite knowing what he’s like.. shouldn’t a girl naturally be attracted to a good respectful guy instead? ![]()
Re: Why is it hard for guys to commit?
from what i've seen either they are too immature to cope with the thought of commitment and marriage or they haven't found the 'take home to your mother' type of girl
Re: Why is it hard for guys to commit?
when you (or girls) know guys in mid 20s don't commit (as per your observation), why mess with them? will you knowingly put your hand in fire?
Now comes the point that they don't commit? I bet if they find someone worth committing, they do!
Anyone ever take on the challenge of going for a bad guy and try to change him into a good guy? or the same with a girl? I mean when they’re good and etc, it just gets boring. There’s something about bad guys that attracts girls I guess, dunno why ![]()
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I don’t think you should ever try to change anyone…cause 99% of the time it just doesn’t work! And I don’t think good guys get boring
There the ones that are marriageable material…and so if anything they should be the ones girls are more interested in…if there looking for a committed guy!! But I guess there will always be those ppl that just want a time pass…and if that’s that case well then the bad boy type will do…and then have fun getting the bad girl rep…and then good luck getting married!!! lol
Re: Why is it hard for guys to commit?
the only reason a guy would not commit when he thinks she is not marriage material or they into it only for time pass!
there are guys who do commit for life, as already said above, not many girls interested in those guys to start with. hence the high non commitment rate!
Re: Why is it hard for guys to commit?
or it could be those guys that are willing to commit and get married, are too shy to approach girls or go about the whole marriage process, where as the non-committed type of guys know exactly how to woo a girl.
and so if anything they should be the ones girls are more interested in...if there looking for a **committed **guy!!
I hope you meant "committable" guy? :p