(DoT, dOT, dOt)I’m curious…when it comes time to get married…guyz, who are average, want the most beautiful wives…tall, thin, gorgeous, etc etc…?
and wat about the girls who are average..and they want hot hot guyz for hubbys!!!..6-pack, tall, coloured eyes etc etc?
any AnswerZ?
“…beauty is life when life unveils her holy face, But you are life and you are the veil. Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in the mirror, But you are eternity and you are the mirror.”
Hinna kahan ho:mad:
I guess people are running after their ideals …
but ideals are just that
ideals and nothing else
Ok my memory is not coughing up the name of that drama i watched but it was bout four college girlsfriends who promise each other that they will only marry their ideals
and then the whole drama revolves around how each of them find their ideals and do they fail or succeed
Damn forgotten the name
It had Shabir Jan, Ayesha Alam, Huma something, umm forgotten the names of the rest of em
Will someone remind this poor bhuria aunty the name of that drama
Anchal bajaann mein ya hoon :D
Kesi ho??!?! hugz Long time no scheeeeeee sob
Well...the ideals of the inviduals won't get them everything in the marriage that they want rite?!
And as for the drama..err I dunno..I've only recently been interested in dramas..since I came back from pakistan
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dunno never idealized(sp?) anybody
jo mil gia usi main khush:D
Umm ok say someone wants a slim smart good looking hot babe rite
what bout the personality, likes, dislikes, and all that stuff that really matters in a relationship
Obviously you cannot make a marriage work by just the looks
Yahoo i finally have met the sex bomb of a girl, so lean and tall .
later realizing umm hey she is so poohar
Or hey the sex is good...so what if he is badtameez?
or darn I finally managed to bag a filthy rich man but later find out he is rich and dil phenk and rangeen mizag
[This message has been edited by Anchal (edited October 06, 2000).]
Yeah, I know what you mean Hinna, I know many people who think along these lines...whereas the most important aspect of COMPATIBILITY does not even enter their minute brains.
How is this?
Good looking guys for good looking gals.
Good looking gals for good looking guys.
Bad looking gals for bad looking guys.
Bad looking guys for bad looking gals.
No, thats very cruel I think. :)
I think people should look beyond the beauty margins and look for good qualities in person, who may be good or bad looking. I don't know what is the deal with these people, they keep their expectation profiles so high that when they are denied, they are unable to handle the pressure and aftermath.
We should all keep our expectation and kind of partner we want to get to the level we are, nothing more and nothing less. :)
*V~V~V*He came, He saw, He conquered*V~V~V*
[This message has been edited by The Watcher (edited October 06, 2000).]
good hugz...glad u forgave moi!.. ;)....haha anchal baj...love wat u said there heheh :D
Mariah...ya totally..as if looks will give them happiness
watcher...nice lil poem hehe
Hey Hinz! Yeah you're right but I think it goes more for guys than girls.
Girls are intelligent enough to realise that looks aren't everything!
But, everyone has ideals, when it comes to reality people don't always end up going for the brawn.
Reading all these different posts, here and in “Married” forum, man, am I glad I am past that stage! 
It seems getting married is sooooooooooo complicated, with “husbands being imported”, “men are from mars, women are from venus”, and the ever-lasting search for the ever-elusive ideals…
Folks! Each of you will get your partner, (except for those who are really unlucky and die early, and those who have already got one!), and your partner needs to complement you (hopefully), so select your partner keeping in view that you have to spend a whole life together, and not just an evening.
Adios!
PS. BTW Anchal, I liked the last three sentences of your last post. What were you trying to say in second to last, anyway, “badtameez”??? Why is that a problem?
See, Hinna ladki, this is how i look at it everytime it comes to the Gorgeous vs Ugly guys/girls issue. Anyways, it goes something like this:
The speed of light travels faster than the speed of sound, right?
So is that why a gorgeous girl/guy seems to be approachable until they open their mouth to speak which can possibly illustrate how dense they are in what they have to think.
I dunno girl, at least that’s the way i look at it. I hope you still get what i’m saying.
My how it’s just dense of some of us to judge a book by the cover. Ppl are just so shallow sometimes, huh?
[This message has been edited by kohal (edited October 07, 2000).]
a preist .. .. .. searching for a goddes to worship .. .. .. but .. .. .. she should b pure, honest, loveable and just for me.
me and her .. .. .. her and me
thats it.
I like Kohal's scientific explanatation :) but what about what Hinna initially brought up about people being average and basing a decision mostly on looks OF THE OTHER PERSON?
Why do some people who are (deservedly) devoid of mirrors, barbarically insist on being immensly vain and finding the most perfect physical creation of flesh as their soul mate!?!
hey cat.....hmmmm well maybe ppl don't end up with that "most beautiful mate"...but they try to attempt to find one..and dats just totally wrong....sure...if u want someone who is attractive..itz all good..but don't just turn down the next average guy/girl in line just because he's/she's not picture perfect.
Pristine ...what stage are u at ;)
kohal...very true....some "hot guy"/ "beautiful girl" look great when they keep their mouths closed..but as soon as they open that trap...itz as if they lose their beauty.
k2pk...they may want their mate to be a center of attention...so that THEY GET attention?! ..just a thought
Pristine
I just simply meant Badtameez
Recently met a Guppie on VChat and umm lets say the person is way badtameez and arrogant
Ugh
Anchal, now you have got me really confused. Here is what you said “Or hey the sex is good…so what if he is badtameez?”.
And now you said “I just simply meant Badtameez. Recently met a Guppie on VChat and umm lets say the person is way badtameez and arrogant”.
Ok, ok… I am keeping my opinion to myself, I am sure you are not ‘that’ casual over VCHAT
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Pristine you asked bout the being badtameez part in my post
not the sex part :D
My reply meant i cant stand it :)
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ! :D
Hinna I agree, it makes sense about the attention. But another twist, eventhough in this 'desi' culture where 'class' is king, I wonder how people who unfortunately do not have the ability to 'conquer' a strong catch, can have such false hopes??? That annoys me, when people have a false sense of reality...but I guess that just human nature...
*wonders whats goin on between pristine and anchal....a very INTERESTING conversation ;) *
k2pk....I don't think itz human nature..more like paki nature :D