Why is he so indifferent?

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Re: Why is he so indifferent?

@PyariCgudia

As for going out alone, make it a plan to go out on a date once a week alone with him, say you want to build intimate time and horse around in private. That should do it. He will figure out a way to get you out of the house. :k:

If he doesn’t then explain to him that next time he puts his hands on you, you will call his mom into the bedroom.

Pcg I have discussed this a million times with him. The thing is he will do it once or twice after I tell him that I need some time with him alone but would do back to sitting with family until late and not spending much time with me even at home let alone going on dates. Now after telling him many times politely I just dont feel like asking him. Why is it just me who feels the need of spending time as a couple.Btw It was a love marriage. And because we lived in different countries before shadi we hardly enjoyed our engagement period which both of us regret. After shadi fil lectured the two of us about how we should avoid going out alone without asking mil n sil each time and that was it. It worked so well on him that he never takes me out himself. I am so frustrated. Why is it always me who discusses how the two of us should spend time together. Why is my basic right considered a luxury in thid house. Let me tell you ny in laws are not some uneducated people. They are highly educated and alwats claim to be very liberal. But when it comes to dil they are as typical as any conservative uneducated family.