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Secondly you dont need to keep anyone company but likewise saying this outright to anyone will cause fights. So figure out what you like to do and do it. Then if people criticize you later for not sitting with his Amma, you can just shrug and say you have stuff to do.
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As for going out alone, make it a plan to go out on a date once a week alone with him, say you want to build intimate time and horse around in private. That should do it. He will figure out a way to get you out of the house. :k:
If he doesn’t then explain to him that next time he puts his hands on you, you will call his mom into the bedroom.
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OP ... Be upfront with him ...
1) Tell him to listen to you without reacting ... just be comforting
2) Tell him the reason for your heartache quickly, but also tell him not to cause problems, because:
a) he should not fight your battles with his own parents
b) any action he takes will only come back to bite you anyway ... But you need someone to hear you out ...
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Definitely easier said than done. Desi guys don't want to listen to too much bakh bakh and they somehow think all the girls in the sorority house will get along. Then eventually they figure out they're not living in a sorority house but rather a do takay ka frat house minus alcohol and + a broken toilet.
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one thing about sororities and frat houses is that they all use plastic plates and them red solo cups. 
relationship advise, pcg? srsly? y u do dis? y?
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If the girl is worth it any man listens to her. If its the same damn thing over and over again....everybody including women have their limits.
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Lol
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Well my life revolves around the same damn thing obviously my problems will be related to what goes on my life 24/7
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Pcg I have discussed this a million times with him. The thing is he will do it once or twice after I tell him that I need some time with him alone but would do back to sitting with family until late and not spending much time with me even at home let alone going on dates. Now after telling him many times politely I just dont feel like asking him. Why is it just me who feels the need of spending time as a couple.Btw It was a love marriage. And because we lived in different countries before shadi we hardly enjoyed our engagement period which both of us regret. After shadi fil lectured the two of us about how we should avoid going out alone without asking mil n sil each time and that was it. It worked so well on him that he never takes me out himself. I am so frustrated. Why is it always me who discusses how the two of us should spend time together. Why is my basic right considered a luxury in thid house. Let me tell you ny in laws are not some uneducated people. They are highly educated and alwats claim to be very liberal. But when it comes to dil they are as typical as any conservative uneducated family.
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Ignore the typos can't handle touch screen.
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watch these may be?
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Cheers
what???
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If I ask someone, "What's bothering you?" and he/she says, "Nothing". I take it at face value.
