Is it not being very "Indian", blaming everyone else (especially Pakistan) for one's own failings :)
Not sure what your getting at.
But bottom line. India thrust itself on PAKISTAN. Pakistan never intended to be enemies with India, it was the INDIANS who had created the atmosphere in which hostility was born.
Kashmir is the back bone of all the problems between the countries. Its forced Paksitani to be on the defensive, all at the expense of other important factors.
India on the other hand, was born as PAkistans counter point. India is meant to be everything PAKISTAN is not. If India loses that one hinge in its existance, then it loses its reason for being.
Thats why you people are constantly demonizing Pakistan and attacking the Indian Muslims... Its point of convergence for an otherwise fractured society.