as i said before i am not interested in your morals. my choice is going to effect only my life and not yours. and on the day of judgement you or any other guppy for that matter wont be there to speak on my behalf. so why worry your little head?
I know its your life and you dont care what anyone else thinks....its a public forum....and you posted this on public for others to respond....and this was my response to it. It was my duty telling you that islamically its wrong....if you want to do it...you can....Ive done my part of telling you.
and i agree with the above post. it's no wonder many desi's age so quickly lol
desis dont age quickly...I remember we had a desi teacher at college....she was about 40.....and all the english teachers were jealous of her.....we all thought she was early 20s ....and she told us shes 40! we all used to tell her that she looks soo young....I remember one day when it was only a group of me and my friends left in the class (all desis)...she said that asian people dont get wrinkles early......the gore people start getting them even in their 20s.....however we asians have good skin and get wrinkles alot later in life.
just marry a gora then.......at least your kids wont be twice as confused as both you and your husband will be.....at least they will be able to relate to their white/gora father...
impulse just because someone doesnt view life the way you do doesnt make them childish. afterall your way of life may not seem suitable to others. let people live their life the way they want...it has no affect on you or me. dont you agree?