"I" need to grow up? You're the woman with a husband and child at home but waste your time getting meaningless attention from strangers on an online forum. You whined about your low budget wedding and all the things it lacked while people here tried comforting your baseless cries for attention. As for your slick remark about the specifications of what this thread is about = its funny how you decided to leave out photography and decor' from your question.. how convenient! Since that's what you sulked over! ha!
Seriously, get a life woman.
very STRAIGHTFORWARD.:biggthumb