Re: Why has wedding planning become so obsessive
ami, wedding favors are for the guests...the kind who appreciate them...who are YOUR well wishers...they did you a favor by taking time out of their schedule to attend a very special day in your life...so in my opinion..a favor is is well due.
I think I might have said this before...it is unfortunate that after inviting 500 guests at a wedding, only a 100 will actually appreciate it. Which is why it is not sensible to invite such guests in the first place. I have tons of favors stuffed in my drawer.....some couples I didnt even know personally...but I loved being at their wedding..
judging from all the statements that favors are not remembered...or they are such a waste..I think the reality of less and less people truly being happy for you is becoming more and more true these days!! so ladies..make sure you plan out your guest list wisely... :)