Right, and that girl he marries isn't someone else's gf right?
I mean seriously....?
Guys who will dump their gfs (who thought it was serious and going somewhere) for a seemingly "virgin" girl will probably get churail wives. And they deserve every bit of that misery.
I Agree...why lead someone on like that? If both people in the relationship are aware that it will probably just be a casual thing, then fine. But I have seen this happen, and unfortunately, its usually not the case.
Re: Why Guys Prefer Arrange Marriage?
This blame the parents theory is interesting. If the parents arrange the marriage, does that mean it comes with a no questions asked escape clause? If not, then how does that fact help resolve any potential relationship issues? A false sense of security perhaps. After all, if Ammi Abu said its OK, then things should turn all right. Riiiight.
Girls, if you're in a relationship which involves sleeping around with a "bf", it's not a question of if but of when the "dump" comes. If you deny this then either you're really naive OR you are already in such a relationship. Either way, my sympathies.
Re: Why Guys Prefer Arrange Marriage?
boys like arrange marriages so that they can blame their parents for when they have an argument with their wife !
This blame the parents theory is interesting. If the parents arrange the marriage, does that mean it comes with a no questions asked escape clause? If not, then how does that fact help resolve any potential relationship issues? A false sense of security perhaps. After all, if Ammi Abu said its OK, then things should turn all right. Riiiight.
*Girls, if you're in a relationship which involves sleeping around with a "bf", it's not a question of if but of when the "dump" comes. If you deny this then either you're really naive OR you are already in such a relationship. Either way, my sympathies.
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and what about those couples of have been physical and then get married? I know many, and they are married and happy today. I am not saying that one should or should not, but it happens. And im not naive or in one of these relationships :)