All girls/women keep complaining that they are pressurised into marrying early and whatnot.
why do they want to get married so late? and also keep criticizing those who marry early or guys who prefer girls that are younger?
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Cos we don't wanna cook for anyone.
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till you reach 30's? after that it becomes less of an issue?
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Girls on GS are the only ones who want to marry late.
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^ That's why Life1 is full of 20-somethings freaking about being over the hill to grandma's house we go.
OP bhai, you "pressurize" gases, not people.
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How late is late? I think most women now-a-days finish their education and get a job before thinking of marriage. They will usually be in the 25-27 age range. Not many people can successfully juggle education and family at the same time.
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What is wrong with them getting education and settling before getting marriage (hint: getting independent) ?
In old days, girls did not use to take higher education (most of the time) and used to get married in younger age. I am not comparing the two times but these days we need more educated mothers and wives. If someone want to graduate before they want to marry, I do not see any problem with that (hence 24-25+ yo before they look for relationship )
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What is wrong with them getting education and settling before getting marriage (hint: getting independent) ?
In old days, girls did not use to take higher education (most of the time) and used to get married in younger age. I am not comparing the two times but these days we need more educated mothers and wives. If someone want to graduate before they want to marry, I do not see any problem with that (hence 24-35+ yo before they look for relationship )
makes me very happy to read this. sometimes you strike the right balance between clashing ideas. =)
I think more people will soon adopt this way of thinking...i mean in the next couple of years.
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All girls/women keep complaining that they are pressurised into marrying early and whatnot.
why do they want to get married so late? and also keep criticizing those who marry early or guys who prefer girls that are younger?
So they don't end up with douchebags. :)
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So they don't end up with douchebags. :)
hehehe. that doesn't matter. at least youre married!
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Of course.
ok in all seriousness......not that older women won't end up with terrible guys and cannot be victims of abuse.... but when you're older and/or NOT desperate to get hitched, it's easier for someone who's educated (either school or real world) to spot red flags in a person/family, or determine if you're compatible with someone. plus when you're serious about education, you tend to have goals that don't revolve around getting married.
It's sad when young girls are desperate to get married..
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makes me very happy to read this. sometimes you strike the right balance between clashing ideas. =)
I think more people will soon adopt this way of thinking...i mean in the next couple of years.
aaaah you are happy. My life has served its purpose.
good bye life. Jannat, here I come...
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This! Very well said :k:
I know it’s an understood thing that one day we all (should) get married… But I never understood why girls are always in such a rush to get married. This isn’t the old days where girls get married and stay at home to cook, clean, take care of the kids and their MIL.. Today we’re raised to be independent and live our lives as individuals.
There’s tons of horror stories of girls that were married off at a young age, simply due to the desperate need to get married “before you’re 30” that end up in horrible situations, and none of the factors that should actually be considered are taken into consideration… Ok maybe not always but over all 
I, personally, think everyone should have the right to become independent and be able to support them selves, with out having to reply on their spouse.
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i knew you would be happy 
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It may be emotional preference that guides them to delay it. Suggesting and imposing late marriage concept to other gals is uber-extreme. I would say if early marriage makes you feel good then go for it.
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Why do guys want to delay marriage so much?
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Why do guys want to delay marriage so much?
Guys are forced to delay marriage, cause they have to get their own place, get a good enough job, because they know that their future wife won't be obligated to help them with the money earning business. But that doesn't justify rejecting girls just cause they're your age.
Women live longer than men anyway so guys should marry older girls so that their chance of dying together improves.
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Guys are forced to delay marriage, cause they have to get their own place, get a good enough job, because they know that their future wife won't be obligated to help them with the money earning business. But that doesn't justify rejecting girls just cause they're your age. Women live longer than men anyway so guys should marry older girls so that their chance of dying together improves.
The bold part I LIKE!
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The bold part I LIKE!
I know. The dying together part is pretty smart. Both my grandmas have been living as widows for more than 10 years, so there are real life examples that make the theory credible. And both their husbands died old living a full life.
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I know. The dying together part is pretty smart. Both my grandmas have been living as widows for more than 10 years, so there are real life examples that make the theory credible. And both their husbands died old living a full life.
husbands usually pass away first though