Why don't women like Mama's Boys?

[Sara516]

@PyariCgudia

Families abroad are spread apart - living in different states, cities, countries. So, now the girl doesn’t move from Bandar Road to Clifton within Karachi. She moves from California to New York. She no longer is a stay-at-home wifey (maybe post-BA or BS or something). **She’s now a working professional or a student still in college or professional school. Now, not only is she moving across country - she has to move jobs, or move schooling. Which means applications for transfers. Which means, you might not get a job or be able to continue schooling when you move, or maybe you can work it out. **

**What if you have a family (seen this all the time), where the guy is actually more flexible to move, and the girl is tied down in a school and can’t leave a program or is tied down in a job. Makes sense for the guy to move, because its not an issue to transfer jobs/schools for him. But boy’s MOTHER is INSISTENT, that her boy is not going to move from NYC to California, and rather the girl needs to saccrifice everything and move to NYC.
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Which means, maybe the girl loses schooling time, or gets pulled out of school ( seen girls get pulled out of professional school all the time with loans that girl’s parents have to pay off - its EMBARASSING professionally - I’ve known a professor who has noticed this trend and even asked me if this is something that happens with desi girls). Or she loses a perfectly good job with stable income and now has to start over from ground zero.

these are just some examples - maybe people in Pakistan cannot relate to it, because marriages happen locally. But in the US, where people are all far apart, **it can become a logistical nightmare to make a wedding work - to make a marriage work. Which city do you do the valima? Are we flying in every relative of the girl’s? **

1. If its’ really such a nightmare to change schools etc , then why bother getting married to a dude from another city/country?

2. not all families. my husband moved to my city. im sure there’s lots of dudes who are just like that.

3a. was your professor a racist?

4. again–if it’s such a nightmare to arrange it, then why even marry someone so far away? If it’s a “Love” marriage, then why complain?

@Das_Reich

stop reading webmd its not good for you
CAD at 24 ys of age cuz of mild obesity ? what r u smoking
esp with a perfect lipid panel

less than 25 is horribly skinny i wud have divorced her if she stayed that way trust me it wasnt easy a lot of threats made her eat those steaks and icecream

you my dear sir have alot more serious issues that deserve its very own thread. chalo shabash, start posting…