Re: Why don’t some desi moms..
Its not just me. Even my friends, cousins (yeah males too) are going through this. Moms usually not easily approve of their sons choice. Why do not they just keep hammering to their sons from childhood that they are NOT allowed to like a girl for their marriage and they will only be allowed to marry if they marry the girl of their moms choice. I have seen so many phaddays where the guys made their mom’s lives difficult for their choice of girl and the moms keep on visiting other girls so that they can recommend ‘their’ choice of girls to their sons. Even moms like those girls, their sons do not agree. If sons are already NOT involved somewhere else, and they like the girl shown by their mom, then the moms think betay ko tau larki bhot pasand agayi, beta tau haath se nikal jai ga shadi k baad. Nahi dosri larki dekhte hain. And then they identify some burai in that larki which their son liked.