Re: Why Doesn’t My Husband Make Efforts to be Romantic??
Good that you don’t covet these things but everyone as you say is different. What the OP wants is not wrong at all. For many people, both men and women it’s a deal breaker.
Mine does none of the above…he’s not a big talker, doesn’t buy me
things, doesn’t say I Love You’s, doesn’t take me to fancy restaurants, won’t write me any cute notes, cards, flowers for every occasion, etc etc etc. And I jussstttttt got married.
If I was like you, I’d have noticed this and cried by now I think. But I notice other things…He has never proclaimed undying devotion or janam janam ka saat. I know he won’t and I don’t care.
If you know he loves you, don’t be foolish and drive him away. Keep making your own loving gestures towards him, in fact make them better and better every year. Eventually he will catch on and reciprocate. Some men change but it takes time and effort…time meaning it can take yearssss.