in the end its ur own wedding! ive heard about girls that almost fell asleep looking down, didnt know what was going on, even my chachi told me that she wishes she was looking up and being talking to people rather than keeping her mouth closed and gazing down. its ur own wedding you MUST enjoy it the way you want to!
^ really...thats crazy.
i hope i will be able to act normal, i really want to dance and everything at my mehndi n valima...but lets c what happens, i knw i will dancing at all my dholkis :O