Why does the bride have to sit like an inanimate frozen statue

This topic reminds of what one of my friend’s sister had to bear :-)…

So that girl is getting married and is the second one in her immediate family to get married..so, even the family was chilled out and enjoying the moments of wedding preparation because, the first wedding is usually the one when everyone is totally stressed out…Anyway, she was very excited for the shopping for so many fabulous, clothes, jewelery and what not…Her bridal dress was being made by some designer…you can just imagine how thrilling and exciting it can be…

And then one day, her mom pulled her aside and told her that she has no problems with anything at all, but she was “politely asked” by aunties to tell the daughter to take it easy and “show some sharm-o-hayaa” and that her excitement level shows that she was getting “desperate” for the marriage…(she was 18 at the time)

:hayaa: