why does it hurt

[Shikra]

*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *

You’re to blame if 1.1 only reads that first paragraph.

1.1---- you’re young.I suggest you keep trying.You wont be happy if you marry the girl and leave the rest who you love.Love doesnt work that way.You both will lose so many people if you decide not to talk this out with the parents.

Frist of all, I am sorry to butt in 1.1 because I don’t want to comment on your situation, but I have something for MQ.

MQ Advice par advice deti chali jaa rahi ho, 1.1 is a SHE, NOT a HE She has said it a few times, especially here:

even he believes that if our parents dont want us to get married then we wont go against their decision…nahi yar we cant…how can u leave parents..i know u cant leave ur luv but parents…this is the toughest time of my life..

i am 22

Now change your advices if necessary and start over keeping in mind that 1.1 is a female.

[1.1]

thankyou everyone for ur replies, advices etc...i have left everything on Allah now...cuz theres nothing we can do...sometimes Allah shows that theres someone who can change ur life...theres someone who has the authority to snatch ur happiness snatch ur sorrows...i dont know what to say i am just speechless...sometimes people forget HIM and then HE makes them realize ke dekho mein hoon...i know nobody can change my fate but Allah..and i am praying that change my fate if hes not in it...bcoz i dont want to live without him..i just dont want to

[Muslim_Queen]

Ohfo Shikre ke bache.

1.1 sorry about that.However my advice is still the same.Talk it out with the parents.Dont make any rash decisions.Best of luck.

[SHAHZAD612]

Thanks a lot Jagit