Hmmm....ok....where shall i start?
I have been married for nearly 3 years now Alhumdullilah and life is great with husband jee. There are 2 sisters in our social circle - i didnt know of them before marriage. Anyway, during many occasions, they have attended functions/gatherings and we too were present. On one occasion, the younger sister asks me how married life is going? And i respond "Alhumdullilah great". She advised me all sorts on how to keep my inlaws wrapped around my finger etc etc... I was shocked @ hearing that and ignored it.
I can sense some jealousy in their eyes and in their tone of voice and i can sense that either/both of them "liked" my hubby hence their attitude. I feel all the salams/duas that we exchange are fake and just for the sake of it!
Last weekend, we attended a function and they were there and i felt so awkward around them. I said salam to them from a distance and exchange a few "how are you, what you up to" words....AND i could also see that were looking at hubbyji...WHY oh WHY?
Do these singletons perfer married men?
i will tell u what... even i am completing 3 yrs in sum months..... i agree with all the points here that maybe they are jealous of the lifestyle u lead.. but i m thinkin, just sayin life is gr8 isnt enough for them to b jealous of u... did u share other things also like what he dus for u etc.... and the lovey dovey things? i dun think they r tryin to turn u against ur inlaws or somethin becus they wanna break u off or somethin! it dusnt make sense so dun think in that direction... but i will tell u somethin from my personal experience, i m married and i have sometimes, not always, found myself lookin at a handsome guy... somtimes if hes like, really, attractive, i will try to look again and i try my best (i dunno if i pass) at not makin it noticeable... so its natural. u didnt tell in ur post if hes good lookin... i m damn sure he is that is why they r ogling at him :D hehehe. take it easy and keep him away from them :)